This is one of the most pondered and asked questions out there for us all. It is definitely one that I get asked a lot! So I would like to shed some light on it, if I can.
First, we need to really understand what the relationship is. The relationship is the energy that is created when two people connect. That energy can quickly be very obviously positive and magnetic, or it can equally be negative and uncomfortable. But it can also be a more slow building thing that takes time for us to feel it’s true energy, and decipher. This is where we can run into trouble. And this is why we must be patient and let that “energy” develope. Then, once we feel it has developed we must decide what in fact it really is, and we must be truthful to ourselves.
This is where we need to step back and take notice of ourselves. Do we feel good in this energy? Or do we not? Does this energy make us feel happy, or does it make us feel bad? This is what should prompt us to either continue connecting or not.
But sometimes we feel very confused about it. Maybe we like certain things about that person and don’t want to see what the connection really is. We may like their looks or personality, their beliefs or even their status. Sometimes we just don’t want to be alone. But what it will come down to, is that connection. That energy, and how it makes us feel when we connect, will be the answer to the question “Is this the right relationship for me?”.
And so, if this connection makes you feel happy and energized, if they make you feel good about yourself and loved, this is the relationship for you. Now that doesn’t mean that it will always be perfect, but it does mean that it is worth putting your time, energy, and heart into it. It does mean that the connection is a positive one for you. It does mean that it is “the right relationship for you!”
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